What’s your “motive”?

Have you ever experienced the luxury of wearing a foundation or powder that was matched specifically to YOUR skin?  Has anyone ever created a perfectly MATCHED powder, foundation or blush to suit all your unique skin care needs, color and tone? Not for most of us..
Until this past weekend, and for the last several years, I have been a big supporter and a loyal customer of Bare Minerals.  I used a mix of their various powders and bronzers to create a look that appeared to work for me.  This effort of mixing and matching, and re-creating my look every time I needed to use face powder was tiresome, and I was starting to look for a change.  So this past weekend, my friend Yana, a Motives Color Consultant, introduced me to the Motives Custom Blend and Custom Mineral product, and created the perfect mineral powder just for me!  It was love at first sight, and within less than an hour, I was holding a jar of my very own unique custom mineral blend.
As I learned, Motives cosmetics line is oil-free, talc-free, paraben free, and fragrance free, and is infused with natural mineral pigments.  The Custom Mineral line is completely non-comedogenic and is actuallyrecommended for sensitive skin.  These minerals are micro-pulverized, and lightweight, so they create a velvety-smooth and silky look and feel. True luxury! Another reason to feel good about the products you are using on your skin!
If you would like to see more and a great video/demo, check out “Motives by Loren Ridinger at  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jfy2u-tESvI
Get in touch with Yana for the perfect mineral foundation, powder or blush of your own!  Once you complete your initial consultation, your formulations stay in her file and she will drop-off or ship your refill to you when you are running low – just give her a call! www.motivescosmetics.com/beautyonthego
Oh, and in case you thought that custom-blended products would be too expensive for you-
  • Custom Mineral Liquid Foundation $45.00
  • Custom Mineral Powder  $40.00
  • Custom Mineral Blush $40.00
 The best part? Shopping through this site:  www.motivescosmetics.com/beautyonthego offers Cashback rewards (up to 50%!) for all the makeup items that you buy, so you can save money while trying new products.  Don’t know about you, but that deal will save me from unnecessary future trips to Sephora..

Sparkly pleasures :)

This post was inspired by one of our clients who mentioned to me that for her upcoming wedding she wanted to add a sparkle to her outfit.  Not a jewelry sparkle that will take away from her already beautiful engagement ring but a sparkle that the photographer will be able to capture and that she will wear around the whole day.  Shoes, of course, shoes!!!  So I decided to check a few brands to see who makes the most sparkle in the industry!  Granted, I was going by what’s the best for my taste and the brands are on the more expensive side but then again, we only get married once (or at least try:)so why not have a little splurge!

Jimmy’s and Loubs had the biggest sparkle (glitter) selection… I added others to give this selection a variety:) Happy Tuesday!!!

(c) Saks Fifth Avenue

Congrats, New York!

So I am not a big fan of sports (unless it’s skiing and I am a part of it:)) and definitely not a fan of American Football but hey, if New York is involved, I am in it:) Congratulations to the New York Giants on their win yesterday and hurray to New York for their Champions!!!

Happy Monday!!!!

(c) NFL.com

How to choose the right dress!

Wedding is probably one of those very few events in your life where you don’t want to mess up your outfit.  Choosing the right dress will keep you happy, your pictures stunning and your memories long and pleasant.  Here are some tips on how to choose the right dress for your body style:

Large Bust: If you have a large chest, you’ll want to go with a dress that has one or more of the following features:
• Scoop neck
• Full coverage V-neck (you don’t want it dropping too low)
• Halter-top neckline
• Off-the-shoulder neckline
• Have your heart set on strapless? Go for sweetheart rather than a straight cut strapless
Avoid
• Bodice fabrics with sheen (organza, satin, silk), as they’ll add volume and call attention to your chest.
• Ruched fabric on the bodice; this has the same affect as fabrics with sheen.
• Straight-cut strapless; these’ll make your chest look like a shelf, not exactly the look you wan ton your wedding day!

Small Bust: Are you a bit smaller on top?  Go for one of these style dresses:
• Strapless with ruched bodice (to add volume)
• Halter-top
• Bateau necklines
• One shoulder necklines
• Empire silhouette dresses

Pear-shape: If you’ve got a pear-shaped body, you’ll want to de-emphasize your hips, and turn the focus onto the narrowest part of your midsection or toward your neckline.  The following styles will help with that:
• Strapless dresses
• V-neck
• Scoop necklines
• Spaghetti straps
• Off the shoulder dresses
• Full A-line gowns
• Ball gown
• Diagonal draping (does a fantastic job of accentuating your curves!)
• Bateau neckline
• Basque waists
• Empire silhouettes
• Go for a fabric that is a bit sturdier in its construction
Avoid
• Sheath silhouettes
• Trumpet and Mermaid gowns
• Fabric that is clingy or too flowing

Apple-Shaped: For an apple-shaped body, you’ll want to go for a dress that will draw the eye upwards toward the bodice or neckline.  Try these:
• Asymmetric neckline
• Deep v-neck – any plunging neckline, really
• Scoop neck
• Strapless empire silhouettes
• A-line silhouettes
• Princess silhouettes
• Empire waists
Avoid
• Ball gowns
• Sheath silhouettes

Hourglass: Similarly to pear-shaped, you’ll want to accentuate the smallest point on your waist.  And be sure to show off your curves!!  These features will look fantastic on you:
• Off-the-shoulder
• A-line dresses
• Standard or dropped waist – dropped waists elongate your torso
• Mermaid and trumpet silhouettes
• Sweetheart necklines
Avoid
• Sheath silhouettes
• Ball gowns
• Empire silhouettes
• Fabrics that are too clingy or tight

Straight/Rectangle: If you have a square body type (athletic builds fall into this category), you’ll want to choose a style that will lengthen your torso.  These styles will definitely flatter you:
• Bateu necklines – they balance narrow shoulders and smaller chests
• Spaghetti straps
• Sheath (column)
• Ball gown
• Mermaid
• Trumpet
• A-lines
• Creative neckline
• Necklines that fall below your collarbone – these add a great touch of femininity
• Drop waist skirt – this elongates your torso nicely
• Empire waist gown
Avoid
• Soft sheath
• Princess gowns
• Basque waists
• Portrait necklines
• Off-the-shoulder dresses
• Halter tops

Full figure: If you’ve got it, flaunt it!  Try for a dress that will show off your voluptuous upper body while flattering your waist and hips.  These styles will look great on you:
• V-necks
• Scoop necks
• Sweetheart necklines
• A-Line dresses
• Ball gowns
• Dropped-waist A-line gowns
• Flat-front ball-gown
• Empire with a high waist (just under bust-line)
Avoid
• Unconstructed silhouettes
• Clingy silhouettes
• Sheath dresses
• Spaghetti straps
• A-lines that start at the chest
• Pleated fabrics
• And just remember, if it’s too loose, it will add pounds

Tall: You tall ladies will want to find a gown that accentuates your length.  Try on dresses that have the following characteristics:
• Plunging V-necks
• Halter tops
• Open necklines and backs – the more open, the better!
• Sheath silhouettes
• Mermaid & trumpet gowns
• Ball gowns
• A-line dresses with a defined waist
• Bias-cut silhouettes
Avoid
• Princess dresses

Petite: Smaller and petite brides should keep their gowns simple; too much embellishments and eye-catching appliques will just look overwhelming and awkward.  You’ll also want to try for a style that will create length without interrupting the bodyline. Try these styles to look fabulous:
• Sweetheart necklines
• Halter tops
• Cowl necklines
• Mermaid or trumpet w raised waistline—and heels!!
• Soft-drape Grecian-inspired style
• Sheath silhouettes – this is better on thinner body types
• A-line gowns
• Empire waists
• Princess gowns
• Eye-catching necklines that will draw the attention up—nothing too flashy though!
Avoid
• Ball gowns
• Dropped-waist silhouettes
• High collars and overwhelming necklines

Remembering your loved ones….

Chances are, you have lost someone who meant the world to you, someone whose life you’d like to honor at your I Do’s.  To do this, you can…

  • Include the names of deceased loved ones in the ceremony programs, along with a few loving words about each person’s relationship to the bride or groom.
  • Pick a song that reminds you of that special person and dedicate it to him/her during the reception.  I can still hear my grandpa belting out Singing In The Rain, and I know he’d love to be remembered this way.
  • Incorporate items that belonged to those who have passed.  The bride can wear a piece of grandma’s jewelry or attach the brooch she never left the house without to her bridal bouquet.  And for the groom, grandfather’s watch, cufflinks or favorite pocket square are all good options.
  • Let those who have passed inspire your signature drinks!  Did grandpa love his Manhattans?  Do dirty martinis drum up memories of the grandma you miss so much?  If so, choose your reception cocktails accordingly!  Incorporate the flavors to create special signature drinks, and name the drinks after the ones you’d like to remember.
  • Include a white rose for each person you’ve lost in your bridal bouquet, as white roses symbolize honor and reverence.  For your groom, a white rose boutonniere!
  • As a couple, light one candle at the ceremony in honor of everyone you’ve lost.  Invite other family members to come up to the altar and light one candle to remember each person who’s past.
  • Write a few lines to pay tribute to those you’ve loved and lost, and ask your officiant to recite these words during the ceremony.
  • Reserve seats at the ceremony for each loved one who’s past.  Hang a sign that says, In Loving Memory of …, on the back of each chair, and place a single white rose on each seat.
  • Incorporate their photos in a creative way.  If your grandparents have passed, add a locket with their photos to your bouquet.  Other ideas include photo walls, trees, tables and more!
  • Thank your guests with their favorite things.  If your grandpa loved wine or your grandma was a chocoholic, let your wedding favors reflect this.
  • Reception entertainment—Did your grandfather love cigars?  Hire an authentic cigar roller to set up shop at your reception.  Or, if you grandparents loved music from a certain era, hire a band that can play their favorite tunes.

    (C) onewed

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